The Conversations with Chevy Chronicles

Connie Manning as a mother of an Autistic who has her own page. Its an autism warrior mom page. She silences autistic voices. She invalidates self diagnosis. She works with the NCSA and ADWHere is a timeline on what happened. 

How it all Started: 

On June 15, Connie Manning, an allistic (not autistic) mother of an autistic had made this post about self diagnosis. I was made aware of this by a follower private messaging my Facebook page and telling me their concerns. 

She goes on to say that self diagnosis is not valid and gives reasons why. I am not self diagnosed BUT who am I to judge who does not have access to a proper evaluation? I can tell you that most self diagnosed autistics, if they had access to an evaluation, would seek it. Connie comes from a place of privilege as she lives in Canada. Canada has universal healthcare as the United States does not. 

She also states that the #actuallyautistic movement is dangerous. I have seen some good and bad with it, like any movement but we have caused some real change. Grouping a group of people and describing them a certain way is dangerous. That’s generalizing. 

Yes there are some autistic people who hate parents but there are some of us who want to educate to make the world a better place for autistic children growing up. She states that the autistics that are dangerous are self diagnosed

{Image discription:
I have hid the profile of the author of this post,

to protect her from further bullying.

This was a post by an intelligent, kind, autistic

Mom, whose son is also autistic, non-verbal.

The rest of this will be My opinion only:

THIS is why the hashtag #ActuallyAutistic is

dangerous to the autism community at large.

It is my opinion that most who use it, and are

self-diagnosed don't actually have autism, but

use it as a platform for many other things, be it

political, societal, intellectual or otherwise.

Personally, when I see a group of people who

use the hashtag #actuallyautistic and spew

hate for everyone around them, from doctors to}


{Personally, when I see a group of people who

use the hashtag #actuallyautistic and spew

hate for everyone around them, from doctors to

educators and especially to parents, I have a

really hard time believing they truly are on the

spectrum.

Why?

Because for one, my son is autistic. While I'm

not, Ive had 23 years of living with someone

who displays autistic traits, daily.

Another reason is that I work in the autism

community, and as such, have plenty of

experience with all ranges of autism from

nonverbal to highly academic, within our own

organization and within our customer family.

While Everyone is unique on the spectrum, I

can confidently say that there is one quality

that weaves its thread throughout everyone on

the spectrum and that is 'purity!}


{A recent example I will give, is when I offered a

comment that was of a different opinion that

the author, who claims to be #ActuallyAutistic.

Since then, I've had hate mail, threats to my

business, had a slogan made up and shared by

the community called 'Connie Is A CxxT....and

that is just a bit of it.

These people are bullies, and have their own

agenda, and use autism as an excuse to be

jerks.

To me, that isn't autism at all....

A perfect situation would be if everyone were

open minded. If everyone listened to another's

opinion, and valued their input. If real

discussions could be made without bias, so

that future autistics aren't having to go to battle

every time they have an opinion that is

different from #actuallyautistics}



{There is something ethereal about autism.

In my years of working with autistics at every

end of the spectrum, I've yet to meet one who

is spiteful, or uses hate mongering to further

their cause.

They also don't have a 'poor me' mentality....

They are fighters, like my son.

They are caring, like my son.

They are peaceful, respectful of all life and

differences, like my son.

There is a dangerous 'movement', I'll go ahead

and call it, of #ActuallyAutistics who have

decided on their own they have autism and that

no one else should have any input but them.

Most of them may very well have autism, but

it's been my experience that many 'actually

don't, and it's these ones that are giving autism

a very bad name.}

{different from #actuallyautistics

I believe #realautistics voices are being

drowned out by self-diagnosed individuals with

big chips on their shoulders who finally found

something to use to be heard - at the expense

of the autism community.

Hey #ActuallyAutistics - Community doesn't

mean just one group of people.

It takes autistics, parents of autistics, siblings

of autistics, extended family of autistics,

teachers of autistics, doctors of autistics,

therapists of autistics, employers of autistics

to join together, learn about each other and

pave a way for a better future for autistics.

It shouldn't mean hate-mongering for anyone

who isn't you.}



{A recent example I will give, is when I offered a

comment that was of a different opinion that

the author, who claims to be #ActuallyAutistic.

Since then, I've had hate mail, threats to my

business, had a slogan made up and shared by

the community called 'Connie Is A CxxT....and

that is just a bit of it.

These people are bullies, and have their own

agenda, and use autism as an excuse to be

jerks.

To me, that isn't autism at all....

A perfect situation would be if everyone were

open minded. If everyone listened to another's}

{I believe #realautistics voices are being

drowned out by self-diagnosed individuals with

big chips on their shoulders who finally found

something to use to be heard - at the expense

of the autism community.

Hey #ActuallyAutistics - Community doesn't

mean just one group of people.

It takes autistics, parents of autistics, siblings

of autistics, extended family of autistics,

teachers of autistics, doctors of autistics,

therapists of autistics, employers of autistics

to join together, learn about each other and

pave a way for a better future for autistics.

It shouldn't mean hate-mongering for anyone}




{Connie Manning

https://medium.com/@guy.t/you-and

-i-are-not-the-same-autism-and-self

-diagnosis-8bbc587f2e7d

MEDIUM.COM

You and I are not the same

(Autism and self-diagnosi...

4h Like Reply

Author

Not your Neuro-Typical Family

Connie Manning bye Connie

Just now

Like Reply}

{Connie Manning

http://autismjabberwocky.blogspot

.com/2012/10/whats-wrong-with

-diagnosing yourself.html?m=1

AUTISMJABBERWOCKY BLOGSPOT.CO

What's Wrong With

Diagnosing Yourself with Aut...

3h Like Reply

Ro Carlson

Are you professionally or self

diagnosed as NT?

2h Like Reply

Connie Manning

Ro Carlson professionally

diagnosed as not NT.

2h Like Reply

Ro Carlson

Connie Manning do you feel

confident in the diagnosis?

If so, is it because the description

of the diagnosis accurately

describes your lived experience?

12m Like Reply

Author

Conversations With Chevy

Ro Carlson yes I'm very confident

in the diagnosis, and yes it does.

Am Like Reply

Ro Carlson

Conversations With Chevy

That's great!

Ok so when we find the

description that describes our

lived experience - why is that so

different?}


Connie Manning

Once again, twist my words to fit your

agenda.

It's ok, I'm getting used to it.

Just now Like Reply Message}




After this situation, I did add the page to my boycott list using the screen shots of what happened. The purpose of that list is to prevent autistics from being triggered by traumatic content. I state facts, that’s it. I am very objective. 

She didn’t like that and made a post to her page. It’s fine, that’s her right. She was trying to rally people together to report my list on my own website. Good luck with that. We can’t even get MMS peddlers websites shut down. 


{Image description: link Facebook post on Conversations with chey:

Conversations With Chevy

Sep 2:

Here it is.. use your own discretion, but in my opinion,

most of these are great to follow.

HONESTLY, everyone on this list should ban together

and report this.

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Jierceautie.com

FIERCEAUTIE.COM

Autistic Internet Boycott List

Youtube I have included descriptions on what happened wi...}




Several Months later: 

I had ignored her and just tell people about her who ask. A few days ago, there was a post by Conversations with Chevy. To someone who does not know her history it sounds genuine. She is clearly playing the victim. When Autistic people gave their opinions, she deleted the post and reposted. When you delete the post, the comments and reactions are deleted too. 




{❤️ Took down original. Too much hate. Not taking this one down, but no negative comments please. You bet your ass I’ll be tone-policing... now. I won’t be bullied into taking it down altogether, but You don’t get to use MY platform for hate... start your own. 😆 Sincere apologies to those who shared original with the best of intentions - please share again. ❤️ And to those who shared it to fuel hate ...oh DARN. 😉}


{Dear #ActuallyAutistic

When a parent of an autistic child comes to you with questions,

trying to understand her little one's behaviour and needs, they are

not looking for lessons on 'person first language' and how the puzzle

piece is 'wrong'.

They are looking for genuine help and guidance from the the utmost

experts.

Remember what autism advocacy is really about, because this is

your opportunity to truly make a difference. They NEED you.

To dismiss a parent abruptly, because they haven't followed your

'rules' doesn't help them, doesn't help their child, and certainly

doesn't advance autism awareness in any way.

It's ok to educate on the things that are important to you, but don't

shun or berate a parent because they 'get it wrong'.

Trust me, they want to get it right'.

Conversations

With

Chery

Let's work together, not against.

We all want the same thing.}



Connected with NCSA

Connie's good friend Nazreem Bibi recently wrote a blog about how "autism moms are being marginalized" for NCSA. (rebuttal coming soon) Together they are speaking out against self diagnosed autistics. This is ableist, classist and racist. 

{12 Nazreen Bibi Retweeted

Connie Manning @conniem... Oct 14

#Autism Awareness #autistic #autism

you

If

you

want to learn about

autism, ask an autistic,

If want to learn about

autism, ask an autism parent,

If you want to learn about

autism, ask a professional,

If

you

want to learn about

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Nazreen Bibi @NazreenBibi1 Oct 14

I am single and o my goodness I am so ready

to mingle

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{Nazreen Bibi @NazreenBibilOct 14

Wow this lady is loud and clear!! Good on

you @conniemanning44

Connie Manning @connie... Oct 14

Real autistics who have been through the

rigorous process of diagnostics,

communication therapies, appts, speech

therapies,OTs etc should NEVER be told

by an internet self diagnosed asshole

what they can and can't say about their

autism.

Show this thread

#actuautistic (crossed out)

#diagnosedautistic}


Works with the ADW


{Thomas Clements 9 Retweeted

Connie Manning @conniemanning44 · 15h

From authentic_autism_advocacy (IG) #autism #Autism Awareness

I agree, that the severe end of the spectrum is completely forgotten about

by #ActuallyAutistic

#ActuallyAutistic's

incessant harping over

trivial matters diminishes

and undermines real lived

experience of autism.}



Connection With a company

After much research, we found she is connected to a company called CalmWear. Calmwear Global is an Australian company that sells compression clothing to help with sensory issues. She has been promoting it on her Facebook page and there is nothing wrong with that. She does control the social media accounts for CalmWear.  She was not forthcoming about her position with the company. She made it seem like she runs it.  





Calmwear has two complaints through the Better Business Bureau. One is visible on the site. 



In the complaint it shows that the consumer has dealt directly with Connie. 

{Initial Business Response /* (1000, 5, 2019/07/02) */ Contact Name and Title: Connie M****** Director Contact Phone: ************ Contact Email: ******************* We have always been, and still}


Connie was threatening an autistic advocate if they talk badly about the company at all, they would be sued. This violates freedom of speech. If its true, its not libel. This is especially interesting as there is no Business license outside of Australia. 

{+ Parenting Through The Fog Messages

Hi there - you can attack

me, but not a company.

That involves a law suit.

6 hours ago

Thanks for the message!

Please be advised that the

page manager app on my

phone works intermittently at

best. My chronic health issues

make it difficult to keep up with

messages and replies to

everyone, as well. I do my best

to respond when I can! Much

love!

6 hours ago

https://www.washingtonpo

st.com/news/true-

crime/wp/2017/08/01/

they-trashed-their-wedding-

photographer-over-a-125-

fee-so-a-jury-told-them-to-

pay-her-1-million/?

outputType=amp

WASHINGTONPOST.COM

They trashed their wedding

photographer over a $125 fee, so a...

6 hours ago · Seen 10:10 AM

You cannot reply to this conversation.}




After much research, I found that they operate in 4 different counties. Canada, US, UK and Australia. They only have a business license in Australia. These directories are public if you know where to search for the information. Connie is only responsible for North America. 

{Contact Us

USA

616 Corporate Way

#2 Valley Cottage

New York, New York 10989

Phone: 604 996 7484

Email: sales@calmwear.net

Canada

3383 205 Street

Langley BC V2Z 209

Phone: 604 996 7484

Email: sales@calmwear.net

Australia

4/30 Metro Court

Gateshead NSW 2290

Email: sales@calmwear.net

UK

7a Corn Exchange

The Market Place

Swaffham PE37 7AB

Phone: 020 3494 4060

Email: sales@calmwear.net}






The Issue with No Business License:

There are policies and procedures in place to operate a business legally. When someone skips these procedures can lead tp severe consequences to the business. 

If the business operates without a license , it can be forced to close. This means it cannot operate. In some cases, if a license is obtained after the fact, they are free to reopen. This is not always the case. IN some cases, a business may have to wait out a probationary period or a locale can refuse to grant a license. 

Not having a business license is illegal. How severe the infraction is up to the locale. It also depends on the depth of licensing requirements. It depends on the type of business. There may be fines and fees associated with the infraction. 

Not having a license leaves the entity open for lawsuits. If a customer decides they are not pleased with the product or service, they can sue in small claims court. If the business is not licensed, they can go after the owner individually and the plaintiff would be eligible for damages associated to a fraudulent activity. 

IF a business is caught operating without a license, this can cause damage to a company's reputation. If business did not follow procedure to operate legally, they may not follow consumer directives either. 


United States:

The address says they are in NYC. They are not registered for a business license in New York State

{NYS Department of State

Division of Corporations

Informational Message

The information contained in this database is current through Oct 15, 2020.

No business entities were found for Calmwear.

Please refine your search criteria.

To continue please do the following:

Tab to Ok and press the Enter key or Click Ok.}

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Canada

CalmWear does not have a Canadian Business License. There. is no free public search for Ontario but Ontario is in Canada.  

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When expanding an already established foreign business in Canada, each province has their own registration procedures and fees for extra provincial incorporation. Since Connie is in Ontario, this will be used an example. If a non Canadian currently operating in another country, they need to register the company as an extra provincial corporation in that province. 

To be an extra provincial incorporation, an Agent for Service, or an individual 18 years old older who is a resident in Ontario or a corporation having its registered office Ontario. 

 Connection with a Company that Plagiarizes Autistics


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Entity name:

INDASUN PTY LTD

ABN status:

Active from 01 Nov 1999

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Registered from 01 Jul 2000

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CalmWear Global

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Hug For Change

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The founder of CalmWear is also the founder of JetProof. Both Companies are under the parent company of  INDASUN PTD LMT. There is not any information on the parent company that can be found on Google. The parent company was registered in the year 2000. 

She named JettProof after her son Jett:

"I founded JettProof to improve the daily lives of children and adults living with sensory needs by providing an all day wearable, effective solution. JettProof has the ability to positively transform the lives of children and adults living with Autism, Sensory Processing Disorder, ADHD, Anxiety and other neurological conditions.

JettProof came about when my adorable child, Jett was diagnosed with severe Autism, Global Development Delay and Sensory Processing Disorder at 3 years of age. With up to 14 meltdowns before midday most days, I was desperate to find a product to help Jett stay calm, focused and responsive to language and instructions.

A worldwide search did not locate a suitable garment for special needs children that would gently self-regulate a child and could be worn under normal clothing throughout the day, every day, and for all seasons.

With over 20 years of extensive clothing manufacturing, design, export and marketing background, I decided to provide a solution to help Jett and other families throughout the world. JettProof was created! "





On August 31, JettProof posted this meme. I am assuming the photo is of Jett. 

{"Their success isn't determined by their

challenges

JETT PROOF

I am an adult with Autism.

I cannot read a traditional clock,

do not know multiplications,

and have trouble tying my

shoelaces...

I am also a law school graduate

and hold a corporate job.

The ability to tie your

shoelaces does not

determine your success."}


Why is this important? Edge of the Playground had posted this at an earlier date. its actually a line from their book. 

{I am an autistic adult. I cannot read a

traditional clock, do not know

multiplication, and have trouble tying

my shoes.

Tam a law school graduate and hold

a corporate job.

The ability to tie your shoes does not

determine your success.

edgeoftheplayground.com}



Looks very similar, doesn't it? They changed an autistic author's words to promote their agenda of martyrdom. They did not change it until they were confronted with the autistic community. There were several autistics, myself included, that were banned from the page for telling them they committed plagiarism. They still did not unban any of the autistic people who spoke out. 








Sources:
https://www.thebalancesmb.com/as-a-non-canadian-how-can-i-open-a-business-in-canada-2948586

www. calmwear.net

canadasbusinessregistries.ca

Http://dos.ny.gov

https://smallbusiness.chron.com/can-happen-open-business-business-license-2461.html

Comments

  1. Canada may have “free healthcare” but if you were missed growing up as a female due to being born before more recent studies you’re still screwed out of a free diagnosis. Once you’re 18 it’s 3-5k for a diagnosis and many still won’t diagnose females or atypical presenting properly.
    Imho should be free still at least until they get to people born in 2030 or 2040 cause by then hopefully it won’t be missed in masking people until they age out.

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